Archive for July 15th, 2010

Archive for July 15th, 2010

Sex it the way that adults play, but in the past this fun activity ahs been taken far too seriously. Then came the sex toys, an it had a bad rep for being a toll used in porn movies, this is no longer the case, these are mainstream items now, and my discovery of them came from a coffee date.

To me, a “coffee date” has always been a euphemism for more than just a date, made to seem innocuous. However, it has become the acceptable euphemism for meeting anyone for the first time and when a new person recently came into my life, I agreed to this “coffee date” even though I don’t drink coffee!

If I was going to get any dates at all I realized that the inevitable “coffee date” was going to have to be kept and this is how Gary and I met. Fortunately we clicked straight away and I have to admit when I met him, drinking coffee was furthest from my mind. All I could think wa s – “oo, I would like to shag you”. So we started seeing each other and things soon got serious.

Soon our conversations turned to sex and I actually felt quite comfortable speaking with him about this. I had not really ever been this open before but he made me comfortable and soon the conversation led to Sex toys. Not something I had ever contemplated or been very adventurous about.

My last relationship wasn’t terribly sexual and in fact, this was why I had given up on it and allowed it to die a slow and painless death.

The long and short of it was that right from the start Gary and I were honest with each other and when we did get sexually active, we immediately started to explore the possibility of sex toys.

He is definitely of the new generation of men who believe that women should be pleasured before the male partner gets his satisfaction. We had some pretty good and very funny shopping sprees.

Although I was a little shy at first and would only order these adult toys online, things have changed since I discovered adult party plan. I met and agent and hosted a function and a lot of things changed. I have made a lot of new girlfriends too and we take it in turns to host parties and stock up on sexy items.

What really surprises me is that a simple coffee date, that I was completely skeptical about in the first place, has led me to this exciting new place in my life. My circle of friends is growing, my relationship with Gary is growing into love and is on an incredibly even and very satisfied keel; and all because of a cup of coffee, a bit of honesty and some great adult fun!

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