Everything about sex on and off the phone

Sex toys are obviously for adults, and it all makes sense because sex is the way adults play. But who knew that my coffee date would lead me to my discovery of these items, and what a breakthrough this was.

To me, a “coffee date” has always been a euphemism for more than just a date, made to seem innocuous. However, it has become the acceptable euphemism for meeting anyone for the first time and when a new person recently came into my life, I agreed to this “coffee date” even though I don’t drink coffee!

When Gary and I met on our coffee date, we immediately clicked, and I didn’t really go with an open mind, but there you have it. Soon we were actually “seeing” each other and a growing sense of intimacy started to pervade our relationship. We were definitely taking things to the next level, and pretty quickly too.

Soon our conversations turned to sex and I actually felt quite comfortable speaking with him about this. I had not really ever been this open before but he made me comfortable and soon the conversation led to Sex toys. Not something I had ever contemplated or been very adventurous about.

The last relationship I had was not very adventurous and I had been previously married to a selfish pig.

The long and short of it was that right from the start Gary and I were honest with each other and when we did get sexually active, we immediately started to explore the possibility of sex toys.

I consider myself incredibly lucky to have found Gary, he is a modern man with modern views on female sexuality and this for me is refreshing. Shopping for sex toys has become just as much fun as experimenting with them.

First we started looking online, and then I heard about adult party plan and how much fun it was for all the girls to get together to buy plastic ware of a different kind. My girlfriends and I have all hosted a couple of these parties and as well as adding to our collection of sex toys, we have made a lot of new friends.

What really surprises me is that a simple coffee date, that I was completely skeptical about in the first place, has led me to this exciting new place in my life. My circle of friends is growing, my relationship with Gary is growing into love and is on an incredibly even and very satisfied keel; and all because of a cup of coffee, a bit of honesty and some great adult fun!